No Booze, No Pretending: A Real Talk with Heather Marie Morse
Sep 01, 2025
Some episodes of Sober Fit Life feel extra personal, and this one with Heather Marie Morse is definitely one of them.
Heather isn’t just a guest—she’s an old friend. We first crossed paths back in 2008 when I was teaching Pilates. Over the years, our lives kept intersecting—in bars, at parties, and even as neighbors in the same building. Back then, we were drinking buddies, each trying to keep it together on the outside while silently struggling on the inside.
I remember thinking it was cool to have a drinking buddy so close by. But the truth? Neither of us was living in alignment with who we really were or what we truly wanted. We were numbing, coping, and pretending everything was fine.
Fast forward to now, and our connection looks completely different. No booze. No blurry nights. No pretending. Just honesty, growth, and a shared commitment to living fully awake.
In this conversation, Heather shares what her life looked like before sobriety, the patterns and pressures that kept her stuck, and the moment she knew things had to change. We talk about the messy middle of transformation—the doubt, the discomfort, and the unexpected joy that comes when you finally stop numbing out.
This episode is a reminder that you don’t have to hit rock bottom to decide alcohol isn’t serving you anymore. You can choose to rewrite your story at any time—and sometimes, the friends you once drank with become the friends you heal alongside.
In this episode, we talk about:
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Our shared past as drinking buddies and how different life is now
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The silent struggles we both carried while appearing “fine”
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Heather’s turning point and the decision to walk away from alcohol
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How friendships change when you stop drinking
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The inner work required to live honestly and in alignment
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Why you don’t have to hit rock bottom to choose sobriety
This conversation is proof that change is possible, connection can deepen in unexpected ways, and life can feel so much lighter without alcohol in the mix.
