EP 23: How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t: Alcohol, Shame, and Sobriety with Andrea Owen

I can't even begin to tell you how special this conversation is for me. Back in 2018, I picked up How to Stop Feeling Like Sht* by Andrea Owen—and it changed the course of my life. I thought I was hiring her for business coaching, but Andrea saw what I couldn’t yet admit: my drinking was keeping me stuck.

In this episode, I sit down with Andrea, global speaker, certified life coach, and bestselling author of 52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life, How to Stop Feeling Like Sht*, and Make Some Noise. We talk about the sneaky ways shame keeps us stuck, how numbing shows up in our lives, and why alcohol is the ultimate disempowerment tool (even when it’s marketed as empowerment).

Andrea shares her powerful story of recovery, how she learned to sit with uncomfortable emotions, and why curiosity and self-compassion are key tools for growth. If you’ve ever felt trapped in a cycle of perfectionism, people-pleasing, or numbing with alcohol, this episode is for you.

I’m forever grateful for Andrea’s wisdom—and now I get to share it with you. ❤️

📝 In This Episode, We Talk About:

  • Why my intake form confession (“I think I’m drinking too much…”) changed everything

  • Andrea’s journey from love addiction and codependency to sobriety

  • Why alcohol feels empowering but is actually disempowering

  • How numbing cuts us off from joy, intuition, and connection

  • The difference between sobriety and recovery—and why both matter

  • How curiosity and self-compassion are tools for personal growth

  • Why shame is often at the root of perfectionism, control, and people-pleasing

  • Why we can’t selectively numb our emotions

  • How to tell if a habit is comforting or numbing

  • How faith, spirituality, and connection can support sobriety

📚 Resources & Links Mentioned:

Andrea’s website: andreaowen.com

 

Books by Andrea Owen 👇

 

How to Stop Feeling Like Sh*t (Amazon)

 

Make Some Noise (Amazon)

 

52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life (Amazon)

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